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Originally Posted by marina
But what do you do in return?
I remember you saying that you like to cook, so you probably cook. I don't get it. I hate cooking. I only clean because Ben cooks and that's the trade off. It seems like opening doors and walking on the correct side is a small payment for cooking and cleaning both. Or is there some other analogous exchange?
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Well, it's a little different with us. We maintain separate households 1,100 miles apart. And actually, when we do visit, he cooks and cleans as well. I have never cooked for him, but he's cooked for me several times. I try and clean but he just says I'm doing it wrong. Last time he was in town he even did my laundry while I was at work. So I don't know. Other than sexual things that I won't go into, I'm not really sure how I treat him like the man, other than just letting him take care of me, which he likes to do.