2933: Horny and Hopeful w/ Jenna Marucci
 

The so-called amazing body; adult virgins; Planned Parenthood's STD tests

Guest:
Jenna Marucci
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As someone who was a virgin for way too long. It seems like Jenna's identiy is too tied to being a virgin.

The last thing I would want to do is have sex with a virgin. Most people who know what they're doing don't know what there doing.

I feel like Jenna just needs a sex sherpa. She's awesome and cute, just in her head. Great episode. I'm not sure Chemda is gonna make the year...

What an interesting episode.

Jenna needs to get out of her head (therapy maybe?) and receive some sexual guidance (I think Chemda was on to something) and she will be all good. Once it's over with there will be less pressure and she can figure out what she enjoys.

Definitely a mixed message with her frequent use of the term "hooking up" and being a virgin. Probably doesn't help her situation, as it implies she's got more experience than she really does.

I just saw the Silent Trailers with Jenna. I can see why Chemda was hitting on her.

I'M JUST SAYING.

Here it is for those who missed it:

This episode gave me contact anxiety.

I'm not sure how you can tell a 32 year old virgin woman who casually brings up near the end of the conversation about their virgin escapades that sticking anything inside their vagina hurts is not a big deal with out actually asking if they've had it checked out by a gyno.

Has Jenna had any long term relationships? So much date talk, she's cute af, hilarious and clearly incredibly intelligent, how was there no mention of cuddle/netflix&maybe-a-little-too-chill/drinking buddies kind of relationship.

I like how you can tell how horny Chemda is - she's coming on real strong with the sex/flirting with every guest and it's hilarious to see it increase with each week. I might want to change my vote on whether Chemda is gonna make it a year of celibacy now.

Great episode. Jenna is hella cute so I don't blame Chemda at all.

What a rollercoaster of an episode! I never imagined we'd go from the innocent topic of pills to messy fetishes.

From top to bottom i guess:

1) yes i would bang a virgin. I don't think it's something to covet or chase but i wouldn't turn down a hot dude I was into if he brought up he never had sex.

2)The guy in the sauna story was cruising. Have neither of you two heard of that before? It seems as part of our sexual history as boys finding/sharing porn in the woods, or girls having to pretend they don't like sex less they come off slutty. In fact, I just remembered that the ex intern who was recently on explained his dad was doing this except in restrooms, not gyms

3)what an incredibly interesting and frustrating interview. Jenna can go into such detail about her perceived faults, and the maybe degrading shit she did in every aspect about her "relationship"with this guy, but giving a clear, gosh darned response on what the hell she did sexually is impossible for her. I was pulling my hair out every time she said "hooked up" and moved several minutes forward in time like it was all clear.

I wish we could remove hooked up from our vocabulary. Whenever I've hear it it never has the same meaning.

I stayed a virgin way too long. I didn't have any particular religious or moral reasons for it - I wanted it to be "perfect," of course not realizing that whatever version of "perfect" that was in my head at the time was terribly naive. Then the longer I waited, the more worried I was that the guy would be totally turned off by my virginity. I finally just got rid of it at 25....the sex was lame and the guy was lame. I'd done a 180 from waiting for "perfect" to just grabbing the first asshole who came along.

But I take too long to do everything in life, I've realized. I'm finally getting married at the age of 41. For marriage, I'm glad I was slow and waited for the right guy. But we definitely overthink sex and I should've been doing a lot more banging than I did - I would've relaxed a lot sooner and found my guy a decade ago. We've known each other since high school but I spent way too much time playing Rapunzel in her tower not socializing and not hanging out anywhere....and yet still thinking that the perfect guy was somehow just going to find me, when I wasn't going anywhere or doing anything.

I have a friend who is in her 30's and only lost her virginity a year ago, so it can still happen! Just gotta stop overthinking it, fake some confidence and get it in.